It is December!

Wow, where did Novemeber go? It is hard to believe December is already here. What have we been up to?

Jayce: He finished up football. He enjoyed it, but we were getting tired of running back and forth. He received all As on his report card (except for a B in PE...I know!). He was honored at an honor roll breakfast at his school. He is reading several books at one time. He is reading Moby Dick and the Fudge series by Judy Blume. He believes in Santa, and has asked Santa for an XBox. Santa feels like he might do better with a PS3, but we will see come Christmas.

Lakyn: She has been sick for a few weeks. She got ahold of a nasty bug. She is just about over it except for the lingering cough. She enjoys playing with Conley all day. She makes up little plays for them. It is so cute! She is enjoying dance so much. For now, she is showing up with 2 holes in her tights. That is just Lakyn! She has always been a little wild!

Conley: OMGoodness, he is growing so fast. The child wears a 4T! He is a thick, stocky child! He reminds me of a lovable teddy bear! He likes to play with trains, motorcycles and trucks. Yes, he still has the pacifier, but we are working on it. He is a happy child with LOTS of questions!

Brad: He is super busy with work. It is really something our family is trying to learn to adjust to. His work is interesting but very time consuming.

Me: Oh, it is cold! I find plenty to do in the house all day for the fear of getting out and being cold. I get out when it warms up to at least the 50s. On some days, we get lucky and see 60s! I cut down some on my running due to the weather but mostly because my ankle started hurting. Right now, I'm gearing up for Christmas and our trip to see family.

As you can see here in the picture, the kids love to cozy up on the coach in the evenings and watch Christmas movies!

Veterans Day

Life has been a whirlwind since Brad got back from Afghanistan. It is hard to believe he has been back almost 5 months. We are sure glad to have him home. He works even longer hours now with this new position. He rarely makes it home for dinner. He is out of town more than he is here. I really do appreciate each and every day he is able to come home to us. I stop to say Thanks to my wonderful husband who serves his God, his Country and his Family! I appreciate the Veterans of the PAST, the PRESENT, and those who will decide to step up to serve their country in the FUTURE.

Trick or Treat!

We had a hard time deciding what to be for Halloween this year. At first, the kids wanted to go as the Flintstones. Well, once we found out snow was on the way, that idea was OUT! I thought of ordering costumes, but I waited too long. I was looking at costumes just 4 days before Halloween. We live so far out that I didn't really have the time to shop for costumes. What to do? Well, I can make costumes, right? What can I do with jogging suits since it will be cold. I found some DIY costumes, and decided on the mummy. I tea dyed everything! I sewed and hot glued the strips on. I hot glued plastic spiders on the boys' costumes. I found a striped dress for Lakyn. I glued on sequences and tulle. She wore a tiara with glitter spray on her hair. I covered their tennis shoes with socks. The makeup was pretty easy, too. I painted their faces white. The boys had black rings around their eyes with black lips. Lakyn had silver around her eyes with black lips. We also put a few sticker sequences on her eyes. I'm really proud at how the costumes turned out. Most of all, the kids loved how they looked. It was a fun night with a neighborhood hayride and trick or treating. Jayce ran through the neighborhood with his pals, Lakyn ran around with her new friend, and Brad and I took turns taking Conley to the doors. He mostly walked himself. He loved getting candy! It was a good night!

Rainy Day Fun!

It is raining here today, so we decided to get the pop-up playhouse out. The kids are having a blast. It hasn't rained for a week, so we had a break from it. Winter is just around the corner, so we will be entertaining ourselves indoors more and more. We will make the most of it!

Go Bulldogs!

 

Jayce started playing tackle football with the Bulldogs just a few weeks after we moved here. The team took him in even though they have been practicing since July! Jayce jumped right in. During the first practice, I was a little shocked at how much is expected from these 9-10 year olds. The coaches show those boys some tough love. I must say, Jayce has really matured in the past month. He knows what is expected of him, and he tries hard to do his part. I'm really proud of him for trying so hard. He loves going to practice even though it is 6-8 hours a week. He has walked in pretty dirty and beat up on some nights. He LOVES the game! He has has played in 3 games. He usually plays 3-4 plays since he is new, but he loves every second. Go #35!!!

A Little Late...Jayce's 9th Birthday

Jayce turned 9 years old this summer! We took cookies and his gifts out to Hookers at Lake Amistad. It is our favorite place for burgers out by the lake. Later during the week, Jayce had a party at the house with the Hedman family and the McConnell family. We had a fun time eating cake, playing Charades, playing Wii, playing Monopoly and just hanging out.

Jayce LOVES fishing and football. He can fish all day, or he could run around the yard and play football all day. He recently started playing tackle football over in a town close to where we live now in New Jersey. He loves it! The team has been practicing for months, but they were kind enough to take on Jayce. Jayce is improving by leaps and bounds according to his daddy.

Jayce just had a physical for school. He is is about 53 inches tall and weighs 71 pounds. That puts him in the 50th percentile for height and the 70th percentile for weight. He wears a size 8 or 9 in jeans, a M in shirts, and a 4.5 in shoes.

Jayce finally started 3rd grade on Sept 19. The school here in New Jersey was under construction, so they got a late start. So far, he seems to really like it. He says, "My teacher is way nicer than I thought she would be!" Ha! He says the school day is pretty long even though they start an hour later than his old school in Texas. It sure is a long day for his brother and sister because they miss him! We all miss him!

I am unpacking the photo albums now. One of the first pictures I stumbled upon was a newborn picture of Jayce. I had him propped upon my shoulder. He was so little! I have enjoyed my boy so much these past 9 years. Thank you God for letting me take care of him and love him. I pray Jayce has a great 9th year! We love you, Jayce!

Daddy's Little Ballerina

So, what are we up to? We have been in our house for about a week and a half. We are about 80% unpacked. Brad has started his new job and all is going well. This is a picture of Lakyn at work with her daddy. We took him lunch yesterday. We can do that since his work is only a couple of minutes from the house. Jayce had his first football practice last night. They allowed him to join the team although they have been practicing since July. He had a tough practice for 2 hours. He loved it, but he is pretty tired this morning. His first game will be Saturday. School doesn't start until next week! Conley is enjoying this big house. He runs around and around, up and down, all day long. As for me, I'm trying to find a balance and a routine. After 2 months of taking off from a good jogging routine, I am getting back into the swing of things. This house alone keeps me really busy with cleaning, mowing and keeping up the kids. Lakyn started ballet this past Saturday. So far, she loves it! She was fitted for her slippers just the day before. All she could talk about was going to ballet. I was nervous for her because I know how shy she can be with folks she doesn't know. However, she jumped right in there with the other little girls and followed her teacher. I think she is going to really enjoy ballet.

So, that is what we have been up to. We are just diving into this new life here in New Jersey. More pictures of the kids to come. For now, I'm using Brad's computer since I haven't unpacked mine yet!!

Moving

The moving company showed up on August 16 and loaded the truck on August 18. We stayed in a hotel in town for 2 nights and 1 night on base. We headed out on the following Saturday after spending our last night hanging out with our dear friends and neighbors, the Hedmans. We stayed in Arkansas for 3 nights. We enjoyed this short but sweet visit with our family. We stayed 2 nights in Tennessee on Douglas Lake at Dandridge, TN. We enjoyed the small town with the nice lake. We arrived in New Jersey on August 26 just before the hurricane Irene was to make landfall. After about 33 total hours in the vehicles, we are settled here in the TLF (Temporary Lodging Facility) on McGuire AFB.

We bought groceries to prepare for the storm. Jayce has been watching the Weather channel. So far, the folks are predicting high winds and heavy rains. Only God knows!

Our attitude about moving here was pretty negative. Oh, we are excited about the change, but we were also very comfortable in Del Rio. Now that we are here, we are looking forward to learning more about the area, getting into our new house, and meeting new people. This next week will be busy with registering for school, finding a ballet class for Lakyn, getting all our utilities switched, and gearing up for our household goods to arrive.

So far, the kids are doing great! They didn't complain once about all the traveling. They have really been troopers! I'm really impressed with their attitudes and their ability to endure this long trip with all the changes.

Look Who's 2!

 

Conley turned 2 years old on July 17, 2011. We kept telling him "Happy Birthday" and calling him "Birthday Boy" all day. We aren't sure he really understood what was going on, but he would give us a big smile everytime. What a blessing to have all 5 of us under one roof for his birthday. We invited a couple of neighbors over to help us celebrate. Those who attended the "Lightening McQueen" party were: Moma, Daddy, Jayce, Lakyn, Mia, Adam, Julie Hedman, Laura, Madi, Joey, Joe Zujus, Christiana, Brady, Eli, Faith, and Avah McConnel. Conley was a little shy during the birthday song, but he didn't seem to mind sitting at his chair and eating cake! He especially liked the "ice ceem!"

Conley is talking up a storm!! He repeats EVERYTHING we say! He asks quite a few questions, too. "What you doing, Moma? Where's Moma?, Where's Jayce, Where's aiken? Where's Daddy?, What?" He loves to look at books, play with fishing poles (b-boles), wear his flip flops (bip bops), wear hats, wear helmets, look at and talk about bikes, eat gum, drink out of a cup, use his fork, play outside, ride his motorcycle, push the barstool up to the counter and climb up, be chased, tackle daddy and Jayce, swim, and walk without holding your hand. This little fellow can swim! With a his life jacket one, he can kick continuously for a good 2 hours!! He is so comfortable in the water. A scuba instructor noticed him in the pool and couldn't believe how comfortable he is in the water at such a young age.

We all adore our "Boo Boos!" We love you, Conley!!!

He's Home!!!

After 193 days, Brad is home from Afghanistan! Thank you God for bringing him back home to his family!

The kids and I arrived at the airport at about 3:50. We would have been early, but I wasn't sure where the little airport was exactly. We also got out the door that afternoon a little later than I had intended. We all arrived and stood there in the airport by the door. Our neighbors arrived shortly after us and said they saw the plane up overhead. Within minutes, the airplane was on the ground and in front of us. I stood there with the kids with my hands shaking and sweaty and my heart racing. Jayce was climbing the walls trying to see out the door to the airplane. Brad was probably about the 10th person to get off the airplane. As soon as I saw him, my stomach did a few flips and my eyes welled up with tears. The kids started yelling his name. Brad walked into the airport with a big round of applause from neighbors, friends, and folks on his flight. He hugged each of the kids. Conley wasn't sure about him and came running to grab my leg. Brad then gave me a long hug. Oh, it was so nice to see him and touch him. Those who came out to help us welcome Brad home: Mark, Julie, Mia, and Adam Hedman, Eda, Anais, and Luis Castillo, Laura, Joe, Madi, and Joey Zujas, Shannah, Aubrey, and Alison Kassbaum, Frank and Debbie Moore, Terra Wade, , Maj May, Leshia and Mark Buchy, Marika Scott, and Sgt Fricks.

Of course, we had to stop by the Sonic on the way home to get some cold drinks since it was well over 100 degrees. He got a route 44 diet coke, I got a large diet Dr Pepper and the kids got a lemon slush. Brad was surprised to see the big banner we made for him and the yellow ribbon around the oak tree. We spent most of the afternoon helping him unpack with breaks to play. Brad now has 3 little shadows everywhere he goes. For dinner, we had waffles, bananas and peanut butter by request from Brad. Brad went to sleep about 10:30pm, but he woke up about 1:00am and stayed up. His internal clock will need to be adjusted a little at a time. This afternoon, he wants to take the kids to "wet a line." He has been in and out all day checking back in to the base. I know he has to be tired. Maybe, he will sleep more tonight.

There will be some adjusting to do for every member of the family, but it is to be expected! Brad isn't quite sure where to put all his stuff, can't remember where everything is in the house, not used to having the kids needing him so much, and getting back to all his responsibilities here. I'm trying to be patient with him. I know I will have to adjust to him needing me, letting him parent, and giving over some of my responsibilities to him. The kids will have to adjust to him parenting again which includes discipline, sharing him with everyone, and him being a part of their daily routine. We love each other, so I know it won't take long for us all to adjust.

We really appreciate our neighbors, our friends, our family and everyone who showed us so much love and support especially these past 6 months. We are so happy to have our family of 5 back together!!!

2 days, 1 day....hours away

Look how short our chain is NOW!! This picture was taken yesterday. Now, we have less than 24 hours to wait until Brad gets home. Once the kids get in bed, I have a little last minute cleaning to do. Groceries are bought, a weeks worth of meals planned, yard is mowed, both vehicles are clean, clothes are out and ready, yellow ribbon is around the oak tree, the flag is flying, and we are all super excited.

I'm wondering how the kids will react. Jayce is Jayce all the time. I know he will run to his Daddy with open arms. I'm not quite sure about Lakyn since she can be hit or miss. She could hang on to me for a little bit. I know she will warm up quickly. I have NO idea what Conley will do, but I figure he will hang on to me. I know Brad will be just as excited to see all of us as we are to see him.

It has been a long 6 months. It is hard to believe we are down to the final hours. Brad should be flying over the ocean right now. I've been praying all day for a safe trip. Thank you God for taking care of all of us.

Fishing Derby 2011

Jayce, Conley and I went fishing at the base pond for the Kids' Fishing Derby. For the first couple of hours, I chased Conley around while trying to help Jayce change lures and get fish off of hooks. I thought Jayce was doing well until I looked around and noticed the dads were helping fish and turning in their fish. Well, I tried to play catch up and fished as much as I could with Jayce. We came in 3rd. Not bad considering Jayce caught most of the fish himself, and HE carried all the fish up to the weigh station himself. It was a fun day. Jayce is a good little fisherman. He knows his stuff! We ended up going fishing again that day at the creek because Lakyn wanted to fish, too. We didn't catch anything there, but it was nice to enjoy a cold drink from Sonic and just fish.

We are preparing to see Brad in just 2 weeks! We are all very excited. Brad is in good spirits and cannot wait to leave and get on his way home!

Welcome June!

I know the chalkboard says May, but we put our chain up a few days ago. We have been waiting for June since December! Over the Memorial day weekend, we made this chain. The kids have been asking about Daddy's return since he left on Dec 16. Now, they have a better idea when they can expect him to be home. We tore off our first link last night. We will do that every night after dinner. The kids were so excited. They kept running to the map and showing me where Daddy is now and pretending to put him on an airplane. They would use their finger to fly him back to us! I talked to Brad last night which was his June 1st morning. He said he was so excited to see June he could hardly sleep! It has been a long time coming, and we are so excited. We are praying for Brad's safe return to us by the end of the month.

We have been trying to keep ourselves busy. We went on our first breakfast picnic. The kids loved it because it was something different. I loved it because they were so excited, it was nice and cool before the heat of the day, and no mess in the dining room! The pool opened up, and so far we have been once. We plan to go for a little bit tomorrow and then again Friday night to celebrate the end of the school year for Jayce. I'm just trying to have a fun summer until Daddy gets back. Then, it will be a super fun summer!

5 Months down...5 1/2 weeks to go!

Easter came and went. The kids and I enjoyed an Easter egg hunt a the golf course, fishing, and church. Conley called all the eggs "balls!" Jayce caught a good sized bass on his own with a spinner bait he put on himself. Everyone at the golf course was thrilled and excited for him. Conley and Lakyn caught their share of little sunfish with worms. Yes, I baited hooks, took off fish, and baited more hooks, and took off more fish! Lakyn looked sweet in the dress she picked out herself!

Mother's day came and went. We enjoyed church and then a bbq with the Hedmans and Moles. Brad sent tulips which are my favorite. The kids made little handmade gifts and cleaned house. It was a sweet day.

Baseball came and went. Jayce wrapped up baseball season. He did awesome this year. He really seemed to know what he was doing and enjoyed himself. The running to town 3-4 times a week for practice and games has come to a halt.

Vehicle problems came and well, still around. The tahoe is back home after the transmission was replaced for a pretty penny. I'm still trying to get my money back for the dud of a transmission that we ordered. It has been a nightmare! The car is still down, but the truck is running fine thanks to a good friend.

Mimi and Papaw came and went. We really enjoyed having Mimi and Papaw come for a visit. The kids had some time to themselves with just the grandparents. I enjoyed time alone which was much needed. The kids enjoyed swimming at the hotel with Mimi and Papaw and hanging out playing.

Brad is hanging in there. He is as sick of the deployment as we are. Actually, this has been a pretty rough month. I think we are all just at the end of our rope. Brad is due to leave there in 4 1/2 weeks. We will see him in about 5 1/2 weeks. We are all really ready. I'm starting to feel like he is coming home soon. I feel things changing. We can hardly wait. Here in a few days, we will be able to make our 30 day paper chain. I have been looking forward to this during the entire deployment. The pool opens next week which will keep us busy and pretty cool. Jayce has 2 weeks of school left. We have to find little dates along the way to get excited about until the big day comes to us!

We are all doing ok. The countdown is on! We are so excited! I'm praying for a good month.

4 Months Down...2 to go!

Do I push all THREE of our vechicles off a cliff and go get this....?

I can not believe all three of the vehicles are down. First, the car has a fuel problem and dies every few feet. It also has a dead battery. Next, the tahoe leaves the kids and I stranded in town after the transmission gives out. Last, the truck just won't start. Are you kidding me? I was praying at least one vehicle would hold up until Brad gets home. Note to self, the next time the husband deploys, get a reliable vehicle before he leaves. Old vehicles don't do you much good if you can't keep them running. I'm going to try to figure out something by the end of the week.

4 months down and 2 to go. Oh, this deployment cannot come to an end fast enough! I'm getting tired of handling it ALL. I need my best friend here and partner to help out with all the daily things that pop up for our family. I was really optimistic this morning, too. Now, I feel really down and wondering how I will survive mentally for 8.5 more weeks!! Everyone is alive, healthy, and well. I really can't complain.

Spring family days is coming up this weekend. We will Easter egg hunt, fish and eat out at the golf course. On Sunday, we will go to church and brunch. Thank you Jesus for all you do for us!

In May, we are looking forward to meeting Mimi and Papaw for the weekend, wrapping up baseball, and the pool opening. At the end of May, we plan to make a paper chain for Brad's return and start preparing for his homecoming. Forever, folks would ask about Brad and ask how much longer. After I would give the answer, I would always get these sad looks and apologies. Now, folks perk up and say it is just around the corner.

We see a small light at the end of the tunnel. We are ready to have our loved one back with us.

Our Conley is 21 Months old!

 

Ok, so something crazy happened between 20 months and 21 months. He is into everything!! He pulls out DVDs, pulls books off shelves, puts things in the oven, will empty out any cabinet and any drawer in just a few seconds, opens the fridge and gets things out, paints the walls with peanut butter, throws food, hits, gets out of his crib, puts things in the toilet, flushes the toilet, pulls hair, splashes water out of the bathtub, swipes DSIs every chance he gets....

Smiles at you with the biggest grin with little white teeth and deep dimples, pats you on the back, hugs you hard, reaches out for your hand, gives kisses, gets excited when he sees his sister and brother, wrestles with sister and brother, likes to ride a little horsey, LOVES his motorcycle, loves piggy back rides, loves to talk about his little piggies and hear the song, points to and names many body parts, has to open the gas tank door each time he passes by one of our vehicles, sleeps 10-12 hours each night, loves hotdogs, cantelope, candy, bananas and waffles, says lots of words, plays peek-a-boo, loves to slide, has a tender heart, and super sweet.

We love our BooBoos!

Happy Birthday, Daddy!

Happy 37th Birthday, Daddy! We sure wish you were here with us on your special day. We are always connected! We are here celebrating you. We wish for continued safety while you are away from home.

We are sure you have opened your birthday package by now. We hope you enjoy it. The kids and I made a recordable book. We baked chocolate chip cookies. I made a DVD of little videos I have taken here and there since December. The kids also sent Yogi Bear DVD. You know we love you!

Happy Birthday to you! Happy Birthday to you! Happy Birthday, dear Daddy! Happy Birthday to you! Cha Cha Cha! (That last little note has been added since everyone here in south Texas adds it to the end of the birthday song).

How We Roll!

Every month, I plan some type of trip for the kids. I guess it is my way of saying, "We made it through another month!" Last month, we went to Galveston. This month, we are heading to San Antonio for the weekend. We plan to stay at our favorite hotel with the nice swimming pool. We have tickets to see Charlotte's Web which I'm probably more excited about than the kids. Conley is a little too young for the play, so he is going to play with Brad's previous boss and his wife who live there. We will hopefully also grab some good food and do some light shopping.

Riding on the luggage cart is one the highlights of taking a trip. I pray we have a safe and fun trip!

We are getting closer to the 4 month mark.

What are the kids up to?

Jayce: Playing coach pitch baseball. He practices at least once a week, and he has at least 2 games a week. He loves the DSI. His favorite games are Scooby Doo and Mario Cart. He loves to read. We are currently reading Stuart Little. He really likes his TV time, too. He likes to watch fishing shows, baseball, and Swamp People. He made all As and had perfect attendance on his report card. He has been nominated for the gifted and talented program.

Lakyn: She wants to take her training wheels off her bicycle. She is already ready to turn 5. She wants to grow up too fast. She wants a "fake farter" which is a whoopie cushion. She is Conley's little Moma. She can put a diaper on him just as well as I can. She taught him how to use his fork at the dinner table. She gets so much joy out of seeing him learn new things! She and Jayce fight, but she can't wait until he gets home each day. She looks up to him! She is a sweet girl, and loves to pick flowers for her Moma.

Conley: Just started sitting with us at the dinner table. He thinks he is sooooo big, too! His hair is out of control and needs to be cut. He wakes up looking like Einstein! He crawls out of his crib often. Jayce and Lakyn think it is funny. I don't think it is funny. The boy LOVES to eat and eats more than Lakyn but maybe not quite as much as Jayce. He even cries for food when he sees it. He is obsessed with his little 3 wheeler right now. He rides it up and down the sidewalk and just cries when it is time to come in. He says more and more words all the time. I love how he calls Lakyn, "LaLa!"

Brad: He is very busy with work which I think is a good thing. He still doesn't like the food there but eats pretty well out of the care packages. He just received a care package from us today. Another one is on the way for his birthday. He is very, very homesick. We are really missing him, too. He is running into folks he knew back in his Marine Corps days. He says he spends lots of time killing flies.

Me: I'm on a roller coaster. Some days, I do really well and stay on top. Other days, I get overwhelmed and come crashing down. However, I always somehow make it back on top. The kids and I are in a really good routine which helps so much. My biggest problem is staying up too late. When the kids go to bed, it is finally "me" time. I just have a hard time stopping with all the fun things: catching up on my shows, reading, playing on the computer, long baths, and the occasional project. I'm up to jogging 3 miles a few times a week, lifting light weights a few times a week, and going to my WW meetings. The biggest pro from this deployment would have to be how close I am with the kids. I sure do loves those 3 kiddos. I'm ready to have my whole family back together under one roof!!

Spring Break 2011

 

Galveston, TX

 

What a fun time we had during spring break. On Monday, we just relaxed at home. Jayce was able to sleep in. He didn't sleep much because he is an early riser. He lounged around and just played. On Tuesday, we went bowling with other families who have a loved one deployed. On Wednesday, we went to San Antonio. He hit Bass Pro Shops, mexican food, Target, and hung out at the outdoor, heated pool. On Thursday, we headed to Katy, TX. We played in the indoor pool and ate chinese food. On Friday, we headed to Galveston and arrived around 2:00. We checked into our condo and waited on Aunt Mandy, River and Reyd to arrive. Once they got there, we headed to the beach. The weather was warm and calm, so the kids had so much fun in the water. We ate our dinner on the balcony overlooking the water. On Saturday, it was cooler and overcast, so we spent our morning fishing and collecting shells. Saturday afternoon was spent at the pool. Saturday late afternoon was spent back on the beach trying to build sandcastles which Conley kept destroying and flying a kite. Aunt Mandy had a little luck with the kite. The kids got cold and tired, so we headed back to the condo for a chicken dinner out on the patio. Sunday morning was spent getting ready and packing. The cousins really enjoyed each other. River and Jayce hung out and enjoyed their DSIs a little. Lakyn and Reyd are two peas in a pod. They like adventures and getting into things. Conley is like the 5th wheel, but they all tried to care for him. Mandy and I really enjoyed getting to visit. It was nice spending time with family.

The kids have talked about their cousins and the beach for days. I think they will remember this trip for a long time.

Some moments that stuck out: Conley wasn't crazy about the pool in the beginning. By the end of the trip, he was trying to swim by himself. Reyd tried to get brave several times in the water and would end up on his back. Yes, they all wore life jackets. River is so loving and told me he loved us several times. He and Jayce are both pretty sensitive boys, but they can be as rough as any boy. Lakyn swam across the pool with her life jacket on. She loves the hot tub and was disappointed she couldn't get into the one in Galveston because of the age requirement. She is pretty sure her Daddy will buy her a hot tub and a horse when he gets home. Ha! Lakyn also loved seeing all the bluebonnets during the drive home. Jayce has really grown and can swim all over the pool without a life jacket. He felt pretty special that he was old enough to get in the hot tub. He is growing up fast! I can see Reyd and Lakyn running together into the ocean. I can see Jayce serious about fishing. I can see Conley jumping off the side of the pool into my arms just a giggling. I can see me racing Jayce in the pool. I can see Lakyn and I playing ring around the rosies in the pool I can see Mandy running with the kite. I can see us all walking on the shore. Good times!!

Moma, 36 years old

Dear Kids,

Moma turned 36 years old on March 1. It is hard for me to even believe because I don't feel like I thought I would at 36. I'm starting to see myself age with a few gray hairs here and there, more laugh lines, and slower metabolism. However, I still have enough energy to run after you all day. I might move a little slower by the end of the day without Daddy here to give me a break. Sometimes I might wonder if your Daddy and I started our family a little late. Your friends' mothers and fathers seem to be much younger. I then stop and remember how the Lord has blessed us with his perfect timing. Moma LOVES the Lord and prays all you kids will love him, too. I can tell you HE loves you so much! I'm so glad HE picked me to be your Moma. I'm so very blessed to have 3 wonderful children and a loving husband. I'm a lucky Moma!

I'm staying home with y'all, and hope to until Conley goes to school. Even then, I might stay home if I'm able. I love to be at home and take a lot of pride in providing a safe, clean, and family fun home.


I'm trying to create a healthy home. I'm trying to feed us healthy foods. I hope you grow up loving foods that come from the earth. A little treat now and then isn't bad, but I don't want you to love food that isn't good for your body. Most of the cleaners have been eliminated from our household. I'm trying to keep as much junk out of our lungs as possible.

I love to walk! I have been walking miles and miles for years. Just tonight, I walked/jogged 3 miles with Conley in the stroller and Jayce and Lakyn on their bikes. It makes me feel good to see you exercising and taking care of your body.

I really like to take pictures. Jayce, you took this picture just before church. I like to work on this blog for us. I like to sew even though I'm still learning. I like to take long showers and baths. I like to get pedicures. I love the lake. I like to be outside. I like to look at animals and play with them, but I don't have to own a pet. Every once in awhile, an animal will really pull at my heart strings. I like to shop. I mostly like to shop at antique places, flea markets or festivals. I love vintage kitchen items. I'm also more of a girly girl than when I was a kid. I like to shop for jewlery and clothes. I like to read books and magazines. I'm currently reading the Bible and looking at Health magazine. I'm participating in a Bible study on Daniel. I like to read blogs about other Moms like me, crafting blogs, and cooking blogs. I like to watch movies although I don't watch many. I now like Country music which I really didn't even like last year. I LOVE to play at the park and go on picnics with my kids. My most favorite thing to do in the whole world is go camping with my family. I love being close to my family and waking up in nature.

I'm pretty social, but I do cherish time with my family and time alone. I tend to know lots of people, but hold a few very close. I have a really good relationship with my Mom and sisters. I go through times when I'm very outgoing and outspoken and other times I'm quite shy. I think most people would describe me as pretty quiet but funny. If I'm passionate about something, I will get on a soapbox. Your Daddy and I can really "lay down the law" about some issues. Ha!

Each day I hope to see you smile. Each day I hope to hear I love you. Each day I want to hug you. Each day I want to tell you I love you. I strive to be a good mother, a good wife, and a good person. I do the best I can and then try to do better! I love you, kids!

Jayce age 8

 

This is what Jayce picked out at the book fair today. I knew it had to be about fishing or football. He has pretty much been into these 2 things since he was tiny. It is just his thing!

2 months down...4 to go!

Brad has been in Afghanistan for 2 months now. The second month was easier than the first. I think the kids and I are now in a pretty good routine. We have learned to live our lives without Daddy being here. We look forward to Saturday and Sunday morning skype sessions. We talk about Daddy, write Daddy letters, put care packages together, and talk to Daddy on the phone. Lakyn is still a little shy with the camera, but she is warming up. Conley loves to see Dada on the computer, but he doesn't sit long to talk. Brad did hear him say "Wawa" for waffles this morning. Jayce isn't shy with the camera and really enjoys visiting with his Daddy.

Jayce understands where Brad is and what he is doing. Lakyn told me last week Daddy is in heaven. Of course, my heart nearly stopped. I'm making it a point to talk to her more about Daddy's work. As for me, I'm still confused about time. The days seem to fly by, but 4 months sound so far away. Some days are easier than others. I do things now I really didn't mess with before. I put air in my tires, I vaccum the tahoe, I put chains back on bicycles, I pay bills, I play basketball with Jayce, I make coffee, I stay up too late, to name a few. I have days where I'm really happy, and then I have days when I could just drop to my knees and cry because I miss my husband so much. God is here with me holding my hand.

February has just about come to a close. Basketball season is halfway over, Lakyn turned 4 years old, Valentine's Day came and went, and now we are about to move into March. March 20 will be our halfway mark. March will be my birthday and spring break. I've always liked March, so I'm praying for a good month.

Really, we are all doing quite well. We miss Brad so much, but we are making the most of our time. Good friends and family help so much!

Living on the Border

 

The kids and I spent the day at Lake Amistad at the border. It has really been a neat experience living here. This lake is our favorite part about living in Del Rio, Tx. Also, there are great people, tight families, and good food. Pictured here with us is Reagan, Lakyn's friend.

Conley--19 months

 

What is Boo Boos up to? Yep, we still call him Boo Boos especially when he first wakes up from his nap. I'm a lucky Mom because he still takes a long nap in the afternoon and goes to bed at 8:00. He likes to sleep like his Moma! Lakyn and Jayce really try to help take care of their little brother. They are always fetching the "abu" (aka pacifier), sippy cups, and toys. Mostly they do this because Conley loves to throw things especially when he is mad. While in Wal-Mart his week, he threw his container of popcorn chicken and hit a guy in the back. Oh, so embarassing for a Moma. Next, he got into my purse and threw out my military ID which I didn't realize until I was ready to check out. Luckily, someone found it and turned it in. He is really hard on his Moma during shopping trips. He also is trying out the hitting thing and kicking thing. We know he is just trying it out and not trying to be mean.

This boy LOVES to eat. He can put away 2 waffles and a banana for breakfast, an entire sandwich and fruit for lunch, and a big dinner, too. Of course, this doesn't count all the snacks he has during the day such as milk, cheese and yogurt. His favorite foods are bananas, honeydew melon, waffles, cheese sticks, and carrots. I haven't weighed him lately, but I'm guessing he is around 30 pounds. He wears 2T in clothing and a size 6 in shoes. He probably needs so much food because he runs everywhere he goes.

Conley is super sweet when he isn't throwing things. He will pat me on the back when I pick him up. He runs from me when I ask for a kiss. He likes to play hard to get. He just giggles as he runs from me. He breaks into full laughter when I catch him. He is quite the little helper, too. He helps me get laundry out of the dryer, tries to put clean trashbags in the wastebasket, cleans if I leave a towel or dishrag around, puts shoes away in the basket, and put everything in the trash. If there is just one little piece of paper on the floor, he will be sure to put it in the trash.

New words include: stuck, wa-wa (for waffle), La-La (Lakyn), & Day (for Jayce), ball-ball (football and basketball)

Favorite toys:

dump truck: (see picture) He can push it up and down the sidewalk forever.
popping push toy: He loves to push it all over the house. I just have to tune it out most of the time.
football: any type of ball or game with a ball is called "ball-ball"
Daddy doll: He carries it around all the time.
play phone: loves to pretend to talk to someone
computer: Lakyn has a toy computer he is now interested in.
book: He will sit and look at books for quite awhile.

Overall, Conley is still pretty laid back. He is trying a few things, but I know it is his age.

We LOVE our Boo-Boos!

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Happy Birthday, Lakyn!

Dear Lakyn,
You were born early on a snowy day in Omaha, Nebraska. When you were born, your little face was very round with very red cheeks. Sorry, Mommy didn't know you would be allergic to milk. Omaha had very good and COLD milk, so I drank quite a bit of it while I was expecting you. We were already in love with you before you were born, but we fell head over heels for you when you entered the world. You gave us a scare, and stayed in the NICU for 90.5 hours. You ended up being allergic to milk, but you have grown out of it. You were such a trooper during your hospital say. Since then, you have stayed in the hospital one other time. It seems like you have been in and out of the doctor's office the past 4 years, but you seem to be a healthy little girl. You tell us you want to be a doctor when you grow up. Well, last week you also said you want to be Ariel. You don't even cry when you get shots! You are a tough little cookie!

You have your Daddy wrapped around you finger just like it should be. Your Moma and brother just adore you, too! You are witty, pretty, sweet, strong, and a fun loving child! Happy Birthday, Lakyn! We love you so much!!!

Love, Moma

We miss you, Daddy!

Princess Lakyn

Princess Lakyn and her little princess friends celebrated her birthday a little early. Lakyn's birthday isn't for a couple of more weeks, but her best friend, Paiti is moving this week. Lakyn loves Tangled, so we did a Princess theme this year. Her party colors were purple and silver to match her Tangled dress! The princesses enjoyed coloring the cardboard castle, lunch, cupcakes with rings, and a pinata. The princesses left here with a goodie bag with a princess bracelet, tiara, wand, castle soap, and princess stickers. That night as I tucked Lakyn in for bed, she said, "Thank you Moma for the best party!" I love my little princess! I'm so very blessed to have her in my life. Of course, we will be celebrating again in a few weeks.